Mominatrix

To be a member of My family, first you have to be "considered". What does this mean?

Let's look at the process in stages, this helps you to understand how it flows.

After speaking to Me and you have been verified (Note: verification of your real self, this can be a genuine real life photograph, genuine facebook profile or chat on skype). You will also have passed our initial chat and I will have decided that you and I are suitable for one another. This means that our personalities compliment one another, we share similar or agreeable sexual kinks and non-sexual interests. Remember it's not all about kinks, we have to bond on a personal level, this is vitally important.

Why are stages necessary?

They are necessary because I believe that a good Dominant, and a good Mother, should not take on anyone unless she has the time to spent with each of them. I firmly believe that it is selfish of a Dominant to take on more girls and boys than they can cope with. This only has one outcome, the submissive's get bored and go elsewhere, feeling neglected and under valued. I despite this culture and do not do it, I make no excuses for valuing My girls. Hence I have a cap on the amount of subs I have at any one time. That cap number is 6, which are 6 girls.

What happens when you have subs being considered?

Submissive's that have been placed into stage 1, (see next paragraph) are not in the final cap amount of subs. For example, If I already have 6 subs, I can also have 4 subs being considered. I try not to have more than a total of 5 subs being considered at any one time, but it does fluctuate. To see what being considered means, read on.

Stage 1 - You are being considered

Very, very few girls ever reach this stage, demand to be one of My subs is very high. If you are in stage 1, you have already been identified as being potentially very agreeable in terms of personality, age, kinks and personal interests, congratulations!

So what does this mean now you are in stage 1?

It means that you are now on My friends list, you are likely to be given real photos of Me, facebook and skype information. I may expect similar from you, it is all about sharing information about one another with a goal to getting to know each other better. trust takes time to build up between a dominant and a submissive. It doesn't happen over night.

During this phase we can roleplay in sl, you may kneel at My feet in public, and I will call you one of My girls. I will share more real life information with you as we get to know one another.

What can you expect from Me and what can I expect from you?

I expect you to be -

• Non judgemental of others
• Patient
• Non demanding (needy or harassing subs get declined)
• Relaxed, friendly and open to new ideas
• Treat your potential brothers and sisters with respect and love
• Be polite to everyone
• Be yourself and enjoy your time with Me

You can expect from Me -

• To be there for you to talk to when i am available, However My 8 subs come first.
• To have Me listen to you and provide you with support for everyday things
• To make you feel special, cared for and loved
• To enjoy all that your body and mind has to offer
• To help you explore and enjoy your kinks and fetish's
• Give you free hugs, snuggles and kisses whenever you need them!

Many submissive's stay in this stage for a long time, some never leave it. They find that this is enough for them and they are happy to remain here. they are not collared, but are still treated as though they were on a basic level.

Stage 1 is most basically a waiting room though for stage 2.

It is important to note, I fully understand that some people do not like being on a waiting list, considering themselves to just be "someones option". I really do understand this train of thought and will completely agree with you if you decide it is not for you, at anytime. Please understand that is not My wish for any of My subs to feel like they are "just and option" for Me. I do not like anyone to feel like this and will do My utmost to make sure that subs feel loved and cared for, even if they never leave stage 1. If you decline to stay in stage 1 at anytime, you have My blessing to leave without any hard feelings.

Stage 2 - Preparation

Stage 2 is the sub being prepped for entry into the family. This only happens when there is a space available within the group of 6. It is the same as stage 1, but you will be on skype cam on a regular basis and will be set real life "chores", tasks and restrictions, such as orgasm denial, or an amount of orgasm to achieve in a day. Other tasks may be related to dress up or tasks that push your boundaries, but never exceed them.

All girls will be sent an OhmniBod to play with in front of Me while we cam. Girls will be offered My underwear and hand written letters from Myself the post, based on personal preferences. Another option is to have My breast milk posted to you, once expressed onto a non leak container.

Stage 3 - Acceptance into the family

The place has been confirmed and you are a fully fledged member of My family, one of My six submissive's that I treat as a daughter. They get full privileges and access to all of Me and My time.

Stage 4 - Coming to My home - The final stage

Stage 4 is a family member that has accepted My invite to come to visit Me in real life. It can be arranged through Me collecting you in My car (depends on the distance, more than 4 hours I do not do). Otherwise I will pay for any train or bus fares.

My daughter stays in My home, you will have an en-suite double bedroom with complete privacy while you are here. Usually first visits are only for one night or a weekend. The more you visit, the longer the visit can be arranged for., some girls have stayed for nearly a month at a time!